Updated: Jun 5, 2023
I have a big fascination for spiders, bugs and all insects.
I like dark alleys...
I grew up on Long Island, near Long Beach
I am first generation American, not sure if I am so proud of that now
I have a small dog, Sophie, whom I adore
I love the summer and heat!!
I love to travel
I adore yummy food, that can be a Michelin star or a roadside joint.
I have 15 tattoos
I was born to lead
Updated: Jun 5, 2023
Being a lifestyle Pro Dom, my approach is more organic than a scripted play by play action scene. I do not work well with being told what I should do and how I should do it.
Sharing as much detailed information about your fetish /kink journey, allows me to tailor an experience unique to you. What are your hard limits, what is a maybe. What is a YES!!!
[ That includes any medical conditions I should be aware. Your full consent, with the understanding that we can stop the scene at any time.]
We all have that kernel of kink, that one thing that really gets our heart racing. Subsequently, with all the toys in my toolbox (things that are on the table) I create a loose script in my head of our session but ultimately, I let the energy free flow during our session. I read your body language, and sense you. Sense what is working, what actions or words are you reacting to.
Site note for newbies and experienced bottoms. Coming with an open mind and no expectations allows for the best experience. This is about feeling, not thinking or trying to control.
Updated: Jul 13, 2023
Who is Ms Chelle
I am an Alpha Female and Femme Dom. A Sadist with a nurturing nature. This is who I am 24/7, and how I identify even in my vanilla life.
In retrospect I was born to be a leader. We can all thank my younger sister, as she is the first person that I dominated. As I developed, I recognized the power that held. When I started to date it was clear that submissive men were drawn to me.
Not growing up with the internet, there was no place to find others like me, to learn skills or even attend
events. As such my path was a bit different then most, my fetish journey started about 25 years ago as a professional photographer. I was very lucky (Preparation meets Opportunity) that my first gig was shooting a BDSM event once a month. For 5 years I was able to observe, ask questions and feel what resonated within me.
Over the years as I honed my topping skills, though it was only in my personal life and pick up play. It wasn’t until I started hosting events that I truly cultivated my dominant
side and embraced my sadism: coming to terms that you enjoy hurting people, a lot, but you are still a kind person. I learned that for me it comes from love. I love hurting people (who consent only) and getting a reaction. It makes me smile and warms my heart…
Two years ago, my Femme Dom Energy was calling me to do this full time. So here I am writing my first blog post and ready to embark on my new journey.
I am big fan of quotes and whenever possible I always credit the writer. The writing below sums up my approach and mindset
A True Dom doesn't just take control of you or try to order you around. That's not Dominance, that's bullying.
A true Dom is ALWAYS respectful, will guide you, instruct you, encourage you, help you, and drive you to reach your full potential
Not in the bedroom, in LIFE.
A true Dom will be the most supportive person you've ever met. They'll challenge you and teach you things about yourself you never knew.
They'll bring out the very best in you.